Any fire no matter how great will eventually die out except, it is fueled fanned to keep the flames alive; the same applies to your
marriage/ relationship. If things are great now,don't ever assume it
will continue that way "on its own" , you are responsible for keeping
the fire burning. Every marriage/ relationship that is to be enjoyed requires conscious effort on the part of you and your partner; because it is very easy to go from being lovers, to house mates amidst the demands of work,the children, career and so on.
If you have lost the vibe in your marriage/relationship, don't panic, there's still hope. All you need to do is ignite a little spark, fuel it and "voila" you have a great fire burning.
While all of these might seem like some intangible chit chat; hold on the practical ways to ignite that fire is on the way.
The most important requirement in re-igniting the flame in your relationship. Just as there's no bonfire without wood, you cannot renew your friendship with your partner /spouse without a "willing heart"
I said willing because there's no friendship without vulnerability. You will need to open up your heart, tear down the walls you have built,be receptive and positive.
Like I mentioned in my previous post, to re-ignite the flame, you must work on your friendship first.
As in the bible where God called Abraham " his friend" Abraham was able to qualify as God's friend because he opened up himself/heart to God,tore down his walls, was receptive and most importantly he was positive( faith)
As we proceed in the course of the month, we will see more and more ways to re-ignite this flame.
Finally let me say that in order to succeed at this task, you must first of all become a child "in nature". Children are easy going, forgive easily, ready and open to try & try again, they have no wall and most importantly they are mostly positive.
Eyitemi The HomeBuilder
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