This month we began by talking about how you can make your spouse or partner your best friend to re-ignite the flame in your relationship.I have stated that the foremost requirement in becoming your spouses best friend is to open up your heart and be willing to be vulnerable. Every good thing comes with its own price tag, and if you eventually successful @ making your spouse/partner your best friend, it would have been worth all the risk.Hence, in its simplest form, below are ways to make your spouse your best friend;
A: COMMUNICATION
*stay in touch
*call him to give regular daily update
*share the highlights of your day with him
*send romantic text messages
*share funny jokes with him and laugh @ all his jokes ( even when they are not funny
B. COMMON GROUNDS:
*go on a stroll/ short walks with him
*watch a movie together
*attend functions together
*eat together
*play games with each other
The list is endless and you need to be creative. After all said and done, I hope you'll realize that because he is your husband, does not automatically mean he will be your best friend. It takes work, conscious and consistent work from you to make that happen. Do note that the above suggestions are not ends in themselves, each relationship/ marriage is unique and modifications should be made as necessary.
The bottom line is this, the first step to re-igniting the flame in your relationship is to make your partner your best friend. Once you can secure this friendship, you 'll have companionship, companionship will stimulate intimacy which ultimately create that spark you desire.
Eyitemi The Home Builder
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