Dealing with Weeds CONTINUED ......

DEALING WITH WEEDS IN YOUR MARRIAGE CONTINUED…………. Some people are likely to think that weeds refer to big or major issues in a marriage…… I beg to differ… Weeds are actually the little things that lead to the big things. Lets take infidelity as an example… the “INFIDELITY “ in its self is not the weed, it’s the taking your spouse for granted, failure to meet his emotional needs, failure to take care of yourself and remain attractive, failure to speak his love language, these and many more are the weeds that lead to infidelity. The weeds in most cases are often small and very easy to sideline in a relationship; by the time you discover them, the damage has been done. Contrary to popular belief, weeds are not only sown by the enemy. Have you ever heard the phrase that nature harbors vacuum? I’m sure you’ve have heard severally that when you point a finger at someone, the remaining four are pointing in your direction. Those four fingers represent 75%; meaning that you are responsible for a larger portion of the weeds that grow. When searching for weeds, start with the man in the mirror. Look at your shortcomings; look for those actions of yours that build walls instead of bridges and put and end to them To receive daily updates from our blog, visit www.eyitemithehomebuilder.blogspot.com OR Follow me on twitter @homebuilders012 You can send your questions, enquiry and comments to homebuilders@gmail.com Remember to get your copy of my e-book “A WISE WOMAN BUILDS” for just N1, 000.00 ®HOME BUILDERS INTERNATIONAL (Prepare, Preserve & Build)